During conversations with others, do you tend to speak more, or listen more? Or are you equally distributed across both?

During conversations with others, do you tend to speak more, or listen more? Or are
you equally distributed across both?

Does this vary across different relationships that you have with different people?Do you find yourself ruminating on things sometimes?

How do you feel when you do this? How do you snap yourself out of ruminative thinking? Have you ever found yourself ruminating on what someone has said to the point where you might end up mis-understanding

what their actual intended meaning was? If someone is constantly ruminating on what other people say, what consequences might this have for the individual?